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Pleasure


How To Create An Intimate Space
We often talk about internal factors that shape desire, connection, and intimacy but what about our environment?
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
3 min read


Desire Beyond Sex: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Imagination
Desire is one of the earliest stigmas we ever encounter. When we are children lessons about impulse control and self-discipline are taught by well-intentioned adults who want to teach us life skills needed to equip us as “functional” adults in society.
Aliyah Wilcox
3 min read


Meet Cassidy Brown
If you're carrying stories that feel heavy, fragmented, or unspoken, I invite you into a space where we can hold them together—with tenderness, curiosity, and the belief that healing is possible.
Cassidy Brown
3 min read


Soft Landing Podcast: Ep 8: Don't Wait Six Years w/ Dr. Emily Nagoski
We are kicking off Season 2 with Dr. Emily Nagoski and delving into the complex yet common issue of mismatched libidos in relationships.
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
1 min read


Soft Landing Podcast: Ep 6: Putting the Ki in Kink w/ Ms K
Coming down from that BDSM high? Don't worry, we've got you covered with aftercare and a soft landing!
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
1 min read


Soft Landing Podcast: Episode 3: Just Go the F%$k In w/ Luna Matatas
Do you remember your first time? Well, we finally have our first...guest to join us on the pod.
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
35 min read


Soft Landing Podcast: Episode 1: The Need to Be Seen
We might be falling, but at least we're coming in for a soft landing!
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
41 min read


5 Ways Expressive Arts Therapy Supports Eating Disorder Recovery
Here are five ways that expressive arts therapy supports folks who are recovering from eating disorders.
River Chew
9 min read


5 Artistic Ways to Build Body Confidence
Body confidence is feeling good about how you look. It can also impact your physical, emotional, and potentially sexual feelings of...
Mystkue Woods
6 min read


Sound Healing 101: The Future of Medicine
Recent research has shown sound’s ability to promote deep relaxation and pain relief including reducing arthritis...
Melony Crayton
4 min read


Feeling disconnected from your sexuality? Practice sexual self-care
If you’re not satisfied with how you’re showing up as a sexual being, sexual self-care is likely the solution. And no, we’re not just talking about masturbation or increasing frequency of partnered sex… While it may not be commonly discussed, falling into a rut with your sexuality or feeling as though your sex life is lackluster is a really common experience. Movies and media may have caused us to feel as though our sex lives should be active, exciting, steamy, and without o
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
4 min read


Want to Have Mindful Sex? Use This Guided Meditation
In my work as a sex and trauma therapist, I often have clients who share that they struggle with staying present in their bodies,...
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
3 min read


How Mutual Masturbation Can Bring You More Sexual Pleasure
That’s exactly what mutual masturbation is all about—two, or more, people engaging in self-pleasure at the same time and usually in the same place. It can also include a mutual exchange of pleasure in which the people involved are stimulating one another, exploring their erogenous zones.
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
5 min read


Touch in the Time of Corona
For many people, this period of mandated physical distance will bring on pangs of skin hunger. A common theme has been showing up in the...
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
4 min read


Healing Trauma & Finding Eros in your Everyday Life
Survivors of trauma disclose a variety of undesirable experiences or symptoms, but within the context of my work, I am focusing on these four specifically:
Decreased interest in activities
Difficulty experiencing positive affect
Hypervigilance
Negative thoughts and assumptions about oneself
Rafaella Smith-Fiallo
5 min read
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