Working together will center...


We'll explore your experiences and thoughts through a lens that seeks to understand your many possible truths instead of using judgement and shame.


Your life is intended to experience more than pain, survival, and trauma. We'll use a pleasure-centered approach to identify & prioritize your core needs. 


I take the approach of a collaborative team member while offering education, tools, and space to explore your options that help you discover solutions.

Hey, I'm Rafaella!

I am a queer and trans affirming, non-monogamous and kink aware therapist specializing in relationships, sex, and trauma therapy. My goal is to help reveal your expertise, strengths, and ability to heal by developing a healthier relationship with yourself and others.


  • American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT)

  • Association of Black Sexologists and Clinicians (ABSC)

  • International Association of Trauma Professionals (IATP)


  • Master of Social Work (MSW)

  • Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) - Missouri & Nevada

  • Certified Clinical Trauma Therapist Level 2 (CCTP-II)


  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)

  • Eye-Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR)

  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy